shevette at Red's Realm:

We are talking about what it might be like
if bondage ever became mainstream.
Hi, it's me, shevette,
and i'm writing this for Sir Red's site.

We decided that if it ever became possible to hit the streets tied up it would not probably be cool to go as little miss raggedy slave.

The idea would be to go as someone who enjoys being who they are AND being aware that others would be present who are just as proud of who they are. We wouldn't want to take them down, in fact the ideal would be to get accepted by them while also giving them acceptance. It's what we all want, right?

One would not go looking like a kidn*p victum either, just someone out to have a good time, being who they are, and mindful of those around them - and to have a good time!

As a sub i am very much aware that having a good time often means giving the good time to the next person. Seeing someone else happy is THE best way to make ourselves happy!

Something like this is ok at home or even outside in a deserted place, but...

This is something i'd like to do, if it's safe. Hands in back could fly, but my hands tied in front of me would maybe be better - at least until i see how it would be recieved...

Attitude is the key to doing this.

If i was treated like a rag-doll or a slut then i don't think there'd be any repeat performances or anyone that would appreciate what was being done. In private i'll admit that sometimes i do like to be treated like a rag-doll sometimes. Not often, but sometimes it does seam to answer something inside. i even like to play being the other kind of person i mentioned - some... maybe...

Is that confusing? It shouldn't be. We are all many people. We are the person suddenly doing acts of random kindness, and we have all been the person to flip the bird to someone who 'got' your parking space. We all play the rag-doll and the lusting animal in heat.

This all goes back to the concept that since i call myself a sub some people still think i am putting myself down. In a word, 'NO!'

As a sub i am being who i am. Some people repect that. My husband cherishes it.

i am glad to be who i am. i'm not any better than anyone, and it's for sure i'm not worse. i have my faults and my flaws, but i'm working on them.

So let's get back to this going to an amusement park tied up... What i wanted to talk about now is attitude. Well, i have been doing that, haven't i? giggle

Let's remember that in this look at the future we have all sorts of people going places proudly tied up. What would that be like? Everyone has bad days. What would it look like if you saw some sub having a bad day, tied up, and in a public place?

i admit it, i've been rambling again. i believe in rambling. eventually i get out what i'm trying to say. This time what i'm trying to say is: getting tied up in public could happen. i've done it.

It's important how though. We do have to be considerate of those around us. i wouldn't make love in public or even dress too scantily, but there are ways to share our love of bondage with those around us. We don't have sex in public (thank goodness) but we do play in public and part of bondage is play. That is the part we can share with others.

Hey! i think i just said what i meant to say!

On the pages that follow i am going to try to illustrate A trip to an Amusement Park - Tied up!

i will compare what's going on with what it takes to make it happen.

Together we may even see how we have the freedom today to walk in the sunlight...