Welcome to the shevette show!
Surprise, surprise! This time it
didn't take weeks for Rob to respond. i guess he took so long last time because i had been
sick and i was recovering real slow.
|D E M O N S T R A T
I O N
Real - Life
| From idea...
O N E H
O U R ! ! !
Remember the Maine!
||i mean remember the pain...
Ok, the idea for me now is to remember the bad parts of last night - i can do that, i
Ok, i had finished the first two pages... Rob was laid back watching the news
(we are in the middle of a SEVERE WINTER STORM WARNING that started last night)... i got
him and showed him what i had done on the screen... he turned to me... smiled... and told
me that he was ready!
As soon as my heart calmed down a bit i told him that i wanted us to do this without
sex and that i wanted to try to concentrate on the parts of bondage that might give
someone new a hard time. We discussed what we were going to do for maybe five minutes or a
We got ready and went to the living room. i would be gagged so that meant that Rob
wouldn't be able to leave the room for more than a minute at a time. We play cautious when
a gag is involved...
First order of business
see if i can get loose!
see if i can get comfy...
|Now what would a newbie find bad about this? Probably a lot! Let's start from top to
It gets in your face and you can't brush it aside? Maybe a newbie would worry about that,
want to put it up in a pony-tail or something? No, don't do that. Getting ready for
bondage is the same as getting ready for sex (if you have the time - if it's not
spontanious.) Be clean, wear the scents, a little make-up whatever your tastes run to.
We're all different.
- The gag. Bondage gear! (Formerly a bandana)
Gags are dangerous! Never wear one when tied up and alone! They taste bad too, and can
make you drool. Actually gags don't prevent you from making a lot of noise with your mouth
- they just make it so no one can understand you. You can't scream, but you can come
close. Guys like them because you look even more helpless (they like that.) i like them
sometimes because they allow me to say things that if understood might ruin a scene. i can
talk dirty, demand to be let loose, or anything that i want - and still have a good time!
- Handcuffs on the elbows.
Not for newbies, not for everyone. A lot of people can't touch thier elbows behind thier
back. i can and my elbows can be tied together for... i think my best-to-date is four
hours, i think that's right. The reason i wore them was to make it more "fair"
for the newbies. i'm used to what it feels like to be tied up so i thought a little extra
would balance things out...
- Handcuffs on wrists.
i like handcuffs, but a newbie could use silk scarves, leather, rubber, or the ever-poular
rope. This is a two way street here; if you want electrical tape then express your point
of view. If they hate electrical tape (it has a black goo that gets everywhere) then
negotiate it out. i hate most tapes and fishing line or wire is out. i don't need to say
this, but if i don't someone could ask...
- Chain between wrists and spreader bar.
Sometimes i think i'm too flexable for my own good! With my hands handcuffed behind me -
even with the elbows tied - i can touch my gag - or smoke a cigarette! For me a chain like
this is good, i supose. Maybe i was born under a lucky star or something, do you think? i
rate being tied up in three catagories; 1) tied up, 2) hands to feet, 3) tied to
- Spreader Bar.
Don't even ask me why i wanted to have Rob put THE spreader bar on my feet. j and i made
it. In a former life it was a broom handle. We added some eyelets to each end and took a
cheap pair of handcuffs and spread open a link for each end. We hammered the link shut and
invented THE most uncomfortable spreader bar on the planet! Spreader bars are great
durring oral sex though - keeps me from sqeezing anyone's head off with my knees...